Therapy

Sarah’s Approach to Therapy

Sarah believe’s therapy is collaborative with clients. When a warm and supportive environment is created, person-centred, trauma-informed, holistic therapy can occur. By exploring emotional and cognitive blocks a client may have, she supports clients to make meaningful change and improve functioning in daily life. She facilitates clients acknowledging the impact of trauma, mental health, and addiction on their lives, strengthening resilience, self-compassion, and hope.

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It’s important to remember that the overarching goal of protective parts is to keep the hurt away. Protective parts will go to any length to distract, derail, confuse, and avoid moving toward the pain
— Frank G. Anderson (Internal Family Systems founder)

Therapy can support you in finding healthier ways to manage issues relating to:

Anxiety/Panic

Autism

Aging

Addiction

ADHD

ComplexPTSD/PTSD

Depression

Dissociation

Self Esteem

Panic Attacks

Abuse/Abandonment

Sexuality/Identity

Trauma

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A seaweed stem with dark, shiny, and tattered leaves submerged in clear blue-green water.

Modalities

Sarah integrates the theories, skills and techniques of evidence based therapeutic approaches to offer the most relevant treatment to her clients.

Click on the modality to learn more about how these work and their benefits:

Boarding School Syndrome

Boarding School Syndrome is complex, lasting trauma that may result from attending boarding school from a young age. It involves emotional detachment, interpersonal and relationship difficulties, attachment issues, and fear of abandonment, resulting from the loss of a primary caregiver, parent and family system. Unhelpful coping strategies and patterns may continue from this time impacting how individuals interact with others and themselves post-school as adults. The early adaption required to survive this structure can create a masked identity and lead to a disconnect from ones authentic self. This masking can lead to difficulty with emotional vulnerability and connection with others due to the protection this distancing offered. Workaholism, perfectionism, guilt, shame, addiction, depression, anxiety, emotional numbness, a need to control, a drive to overachieve, and an inability to switch off, may appear due to the psychological distress experienced.

Individuals may have learnt to adapt in these ways:

  • Be independent and not reliant on others from a young age, impacting their sense of trust in the world.

  • Push away or minimise emotions to appear capable and strong.

  • Develop a larger/smaller personality - feeling out of alignment with how they view themselves.

  • Difficulty establishing and keeping close relationships.

Through long term psychotherapy, the hidden trauma of early separation can be explored, emotions felt, and unhelpful coping mechanisms highlighted. Clients can then begin to rebuild a stronger sense of self.

The attempt to escape from pain, is what creates more pain
— Gabor Maté